Having someone to help you with the kids is amazing and makes a huge difference to my life quality.
A life changing experience.
Some changes are almost unconscious, so you accommodate a new person in your daily life.
1- No more walking naked around the house;
2- When in the toilet always lock the door;
3- There will be a run for the shower;
4 – Get up early so you’re the fist in the toilet and don’t have to wait and use a smelly toilet;
5 – Always have food in the house;
6 – Need to get super organised and always tidy up after yourself. You give the example;
7 – There’s no such thing as mind readers. You need to preempt situations and communicate your expectations;
8 – Your weekly shopping will increase considerably;
9 – Your children will try to play the au pair. Be ready for small disputes;
10 – Spare time on building a relationship with your au pair and be grateful.